You don’t have to settle
You know he is no good for you, but he is the only one who has shown interest in you for a while. He is self-centered and doesn’t support your dreams and ambitions. But he calls you his girlfriend and you miss being in a relationship, instead of being alone. Many times when our self-image drops, we begin to settle. We start to think that we don’t deserve better because we are not thin enough, pretty enough, tall enough, funny enough for someone to treat us the way we should be treated. The alternative, being alone, makes us feel worse. However, God made everyone the way He wanted them to be, He did not mistake. Don’t let other people define who you are supposed to be. The Bible says in Genesis 1:27 “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.” God concludes in versus 31 where it says “God saw all that he had made, and it was very good.” You are very good, just as you were created. And as His creation, He has someone handpicked for you who will treat you like the queen you were made to be. So dump the boyfriend, put on your best dress and heels and go out and enjoy yourself at the Christmas parties. You never know when you are going to meet your soul mate that God has handpicked for just you!